Gift Ideas for Loved Ones

Hohoho it’s finally up on my blog.

I receive question about gift ideas so often. On average, i get 3 in a month.

Therefore, i decide to put it on my blog.

Just in case you need ideas to give your parents, in law, friends, or your crush a gift, you can rely on this directory ❤️

Let’s start!

Gift for Boyfriend

Wallet, Belt, Pen, Cufflink, Tshirt, Shirt, Polo, Long Sleeve, Jacket, Hat/Cap, Video Game, Book.

Gift for Girlfriend

Makeup, Dolls, Bag, Wallet, Shopping Vouchers, Flowers, Skin Care, Jewellery, Accessory, Clothes, Book. Or just simply bring her flowers and romantic dinner, she’ll love it ❤️

Gift for Mom or In Law (Ladies)

Skincare, bag, handbag, wallet, blouse, make up, clothes, bouquet of flowers, ice tart / cake tart, healthy supplement: preferably ginseng or bird nest.

Gift for Dad or In Law (Men)

Cufflink, pen, wallet, belt, clothes, healthy supplement, book.

Gift for Friend

Clothes, wallet, skincare, accessory, book or just as simple as birthday cake with heart warming birthday card.

Gift for Graduation

Pen – a good one, for him/her sign a contract paper and many more great deals in their life.

Flowers and Card

Gift for Valentine’s or White Day

Flowers, Chocolate, Fancy / Homemade Romantic Dinner .

Gift to Come Over or Visit BF/GF Family

If you live in another town, bring the most favorite/popular foods/goodies from your hometown. But if you live in the same city, don’t bother. Just bring the best version of yourself and be polite 😊

Gift for CNY / Christmas / NYE / Ramadhan, etc

Hampers of food, fruits, or healthy supplement for the family.

For your Girlfriend/Boyfriend, i don’t think it’s mandatory. If you still want to give, then you can always refer to the gift ideas i have mentioned above tho it might be confusing to differentiate birthday gift and other celebratory gift.

Bridal Shower Gift

It is best to coordinate with friends and spare your time to have dinner/lunch together. Even without decoration, bridal shower could be heart warming too. You can give a letter and don’t forget…. Lingerie 😍

• Baby Shower Gift

I prefer to give and receive things that are usefull for the journey like pregnancy book, parenting book, sterilizer for baby bottles, feeding set, or even a treatment for mom to make sure she still looking gorgeous on pregnancy and after delivery such as massage coupon, skincare.


There’s a believe that you cannot give Watch – Perfume – and Shoes to your loved ones as it will cause the relationship to end.

Shoes – you ask the person to go away from your life.

Watch – as the battery dry and the clock stop ticking, so is your relationship.

Perfume – perfume will evaporate. They believed it will happen to the relationship. Love and the fire inside will evaporate and gone.

So how this thing relevant in our modern life? Do i believe this?

I personally don’t believe that. I gave my husband perfume and he’s still with me ❤️ I never gave those 3 items above to my exs but our relationship still end.

But if you have a doubt, then it is better to stay away from the “old believe” because i once heard this saying that if you have even only 0.1% of believe, it will happen to you. But if you don’t, it will never affect you.

We’ve come to an end 🙂

I do believe that every gifts should match the personality of the receiver and the financial of the giver.

It’s important!

If you running out of ideas, you can always ask their wishlists and make one of it comes true! A personalised gift could always be a great option too 🙂

Don’t measure the gift from the price and the brand
. Measure it from the thought and the care and the time the person (giver) put to prepare you such things.

And don’t feel burden to “pay back” at the same level of gift.

But i’m not here to teach you to become stingy okay…. If you have the budget, make sure you give your best too.

At the end of the day, your priority, commitment, your time, your consistency and loyalty are the things they will remember for life ❤️

Before i put this to end, i believe some of you will whisper like “can you suggest me the brand or which store to go to buy the clothes, bag, etc?

Brand always related to the budget you have. It is wiser and better that you go for yourself and look for what suits your wallet.

Don’t be afraid or feel ashame if you just browsing around without buying.

Ignore their weird look. Help yourself 😁 or you can always browse it on your browser first to know the price range of particular brands before visitting the store 🙂

Good luck preparing your gift 🙏🏻

And if you have another great idea to share, just comment below. I would love to have new insights too ❤️

** Pictures are from various sources at Pinterest**

Self Reflection (Bahasa)

Hello semua ❤️

Udah lama ya ngga nulis soal “Girl’s Talk”.

Been busy with events and product reviews lately.

Lalu ditengah kesibukan sambil jagain anak, aku jadi belajar dan merenung banyak hal.

Iya lohhh jadi seorang ibu malah bikin waktu “self reflection” nya banyak, dan cuman dari mengamati si baby.

Aku jujur aja lupa, kayaknya aku pernah nulis hal serupa udahan yah. Tapi aku sambil nemenin si Darren, lagi-lagi hati dan kesadaran aku jadi terketuk kembali.

Aku sering banget ngga sabaran. Semua pingin instant. Kalo nunggu proses itu kayaknya kok lama dan ngga kunjung dateng. Sampe kadang mikir, “aduhhh ini doanya manjur ngga si… didengerin dan bakal dijawab ngga si” 😂

Lalu aku ngeliat ke anak aku, Darren.

Aku ngajarin dia minum dari sedotan itu susah banget loh. Trainingnya lama. Dan adanya sedotannya digigit atau dibuang sama dia. Lumayan putus asa dan nyerah akhirnya aku biarin aja berhenti latian.

Selang 2 bulan tanpa training, satu hari aku iseng kasih dia minum pake straw lagi. And he surprised me! Dia bisa minum dengan lancar 😊

Lalu sama halnya kayak waktu Darren tiba-tiba jalan sendiri, berdiri sendiri, tengkurep sendiri. Padahal uda aku nantikan.

Akhirnya satu kesimpulan aku, kalo uda waktunya yah dia akan bisa.

Mau sedikit lebih lama, sewajarnya, atau lebih cepat, tapi endingnya selalu sama “indah pada waktunya”.

Hal ini juga berlaku buat kehidupan kita orang gede. Kita harus selalu percaya kalau apa yang kita kerjakan ngga akan pernah sia-sia (tentunya kerjaan yang baik loh ya.. rencana yang baik juga)

Hasilnya yah ada waktunya semua. Sama kayak nanam pohon buah. Ada yang cepet berbuah ada yang takes time. Tapi harus selalu dipupuk dan disiramkan.

Kuncinya selain sabar, ngga putus asa, adalah terus mengerjakan yang terbaik.

Aku tau ini hal yang simple diomongin yah, cenderung klise. Tapi berapa sering juga kita putus asa dan ngga sabaran?

Jadi sama-sama di moment ini kita berhenti sejenak, jangan marah dan putus asa. Flash back ke belakang. Kalau semua pencapaian kita saat ini ada proses, jerih payah dan hasilnya. Dan ini akan terjadi lagi. Sekarang. Dan di masa akan datang.

Semua akan indah pada waktunya 😊

Karena ketika kita belajar tentang hal ini dan lebih relax alias tidak terbebani, kita juga akan belajar hal lain, yaitu “bahagia itu sederhana”.

Aku belajar lagi dari Darren.

Mainan anak kecil itu banyakkk loh. Kalo semua mau dibeli, bisa gila-gilaan pengeluarannya. Belom lagi space yang makin sesak buat storingnya, dan belom lagi rasa interest dia sama mainan baru yang cuman singkat.

Jadi biasa aku “akalin” aja si Darren. Contoh dia lagi demen main kuda goyang. Aku naikin dia diguling, lalu aku goyang-goyang.

Dia bisa ketawa happy minta digoyang terus-terusan.

Di lain waktu, cukup aku kasih kertas sama tissue, dia happy robek-robek.

Kadang aku cium-cium perutnya uda ketawa ngakak-ngakak lalu aku dipeluk dicium ❤️

Bahagia itu simple.

Ekspektasi kita dan keinginan kita yang berlebih yang membuat kita sering merasa ngga puas dan merasa kalo bahagia itu mahal harganya.

Padahal bahagia itu keputusan kita. Tanggung jawab kita sendiri.

Jangan selalu melihat ke atas atau berpikir kita hanya bisa bahagia kalau A-B-C tercapai atau kita miliki.

Karena saat hal itu kita punyai, pasti ada yang kosong lagi dan bikin ngga bahagia.

Mari sama-sama belajar lagi kalau dengan mensyukuri hal terkecil maka kita bisa bahagia dengan sederhana juga ❤️

Selamat hari Minggu. Jangan lupa buat selalu semangat, bersabar, dan bahagia selalu.

Karena kebahagiaan adalah tanggung jawab kita sendiri 🙂

My Best Pick for K-Drama

I woke up this morning with a smile on my face. This is because of the dream i had.

I was dreaming of taking a lead role of lady that successfully bring her team to achieve ultimate goal at work. My team is the best Sales Team at One International Company.

Sounds familiar? Haha coz i dremt about Misaeng – the korean drama that i watch recently.

And as i open my Ask.Fm and scrolling through hundreds of unanswered questions, i can notice that some of my friends were asking about which korean drama i love the most, who’s the best korean actor and else.

So i do think why don’t i make a blog post about it. Something fun to share 😊

Let’s start 😎

Frankly speaking, i am not really into K-Dramas, K-Pop, and anything fancy about Korea.

For me, KDramas are too good to be true. Over romantic that can make some of my friends go crazy and have high irrelevant expectation about what sweet man must do.

But i’m not anti or against it. I watch K-Drama. And only few were really my favourite.

It’s not The Heirs, Goblin, Descendant Of The Sun, My Secret Romance, and many more infamous title. I like them, but not in my favourite lists. I guess i have weird taste of drama.

So here’re my all time favourite K-Dramas:

Misaeng | Incomplete Life

Misaeng portrayed Yim Si Wan as Jang Geu Rae, a man who devoted his time to become a professional Baduk Player. When he failed to become professional player, he need to start living as an ordinary man, looking for job to earn money. Too bad he has no other qualification beside Baduk. This make him almost impossible to survive the competition and deadline at his work. Luckily he has a boss and team who very hard on him but also supporting him to become success.

Misaeng is the most relevant and practical drama ever! You can relate well to the story. Even if my synopsis sounds boring, you have to give it a chance and watch for yourself. My sister who never work at company at starting level, also love this drama.

You can relate well how bossy is your boss, how cruel is other colleague, office politic, self motivation to excel in workplace, not to forget this drama has a lot of motivational quotes for us to carry on life.

Other than very rational heart warming story, this drama also starred with many good looking actors and actress. So you won’t want to miss an episode of it.

I love some of the original soundtracks too:

Tomorrow – Han Hee Jung 

But So – Si Wan

Fly – Lee Seung Yul

Hidden Path – Red Cheek Puberty

Try to browse the review, you’ll see high rating and most people love this drama, even our friends in America also love this!

This series teach me to become tougher and have perseverence in life. Get up and continue to work hard coz real attitude and real success will never fail you.

Cinderella and Four Knights

A story about a broke woman who work so hard to get into university after her mother passed away and her dad doubted that she’s his daughter. Ha Won (Park So Dam) then working for super rich man with a mission to make his grandchildren relationship work well with him. This filthy man will support Ha Won financially with one condition, she cannot date his three grandchildren. As we all can predict, she dated one of them!

In this drama, Park So Dam played with Jung Il Woo . Bitter sweet of the story really heart warming. This drama turns my moody days into a bright one.

I always sit quietly and watch the series, making sure i do not missed an episode of it.

This not like Misaeng which is relevant in life, Cinderella and Four Knights is typical fairytale story. Not too exaggerated in act of sweetness of the male actors, that’s the reason why i like it. I love the chemistry between the roles there. Almost real ❤️

And i kinda have crush for Jung Il Woo too (before, my perfect idea for fine man are Grant Gustin, Tom Cavanagh, and Robert Downey Jr. and now, an Asian man!) I’m a new fans wohoo ❤️❤️❤️

Super love the soundtrack too, especially the one from BTOB, called For You.

This is the second time i love korean song! My first one is when Shin Min Ah sang one of the soundtrack of Gumiho. Relaxing, soothing and heartwarming ❤️

Glorious Day

Almost like Misaeng, the drama is filled with good looking actors and actress. The storyline is real too.

You won’t see a love with big gap of background or any other fairy thingy.

Just a mother who wanted her sons to marry women from same class. She might be evil, but she never did anything contrary to the law. No murdering, no poisoning, just give a cold shoulder and  sharp words, which is so relevant and not exaggerated. 

And this drama has happy ending ❤️

Tho the synopsis i give might be a little sad, this series genre is not a sad drama. It’s a romantic comedy. So expect laugh and more laugh.

Gumiho | My Girlfriend is a Nine Tailed Fox

This is my very first crush to K-Drama. 

It’s about Gumiho (Shin Min Ah) who trapped into a paint in the temple and manage to make a contact with modern man (Lee Seung Gi) to rescue her. After that Gumiho follows this man everywhere, share her power to this man too. Till the day come that she wanted so bad to become human.

I know the story line does not make sense. This is totally a fantasy. But i love how the story goes and the epic acting of the roles. 


A fantasy and thrill genre. This is an epic drama for me. No time for over romantic love life, this drama make my heart beats race with the plot.

It’s about an old walkie talkie that send transmission and make a detective from the past able to communicate with present day detective.

With the help from both past and present days, criminal case solved one by one. But they need to be careful because changing the timeline might affect the past and future differently. And the danger also closer to them.

Fabulous Neighbour

This is a bad bad bad story to be true in real life.

A wife who is unfaithful then got amnesia, a husband who want revenge because his one and only daughter passed away due to the careless act of his wife and  her love affairs.

This drama is suitable for 28 years old and above since the actors and actress are not so young anymore and the story line is heavy too. However they manage to deliver the story and emotion well.

I love how Seo Do Young played his role here. Romantic, ambitious, cold, gentle at the same time.

Please Come Back, Mister

This is a super funny and heart warming drama, starred Rain as the main man role.

A story about two spirit who back to life but their body were not their previous one. They got into someone else body.

I always laugh so bad in every episode. Hilarious! Perfect drama to enlighten busy stress day.

Strong Woman Do Bong Soon

This drama was recommended by my BFF. It’s about Bong Soon who inherit superhuman power from her grandmother. She is super strong.

She’s in love with her friend while her boss secretly like her, and without her knowing, she also start to like her boss.

Story is super fun and cute, and it doesn’t get me bored since it has a crime scene too.

Doctor Stranger

I can say that this drama very different to others. It involved many medical scene and terms. Genius. Smart.

But just like any other K-Drama, it filled with wonderful love story too. I love how Lee Jong Suk played as Park Hoon here. Charming and smart ❤️

So that’s all about my favourite K-Drama to present days!

I know my synopsis were all boring. I have hard time to deliver it well to you. But i guess you can always google it for yourself 😁 You got the drama titles, so you can check the review by yourself. Sure you will want to watch it.

I have been recommending the titles i listed above to many of my friends and they all like it 💗

They still have their best list too, but my recommendation definitely match their preference too.

So if you have nothing to do on your holiday, i guess it’s the right time to have K-Drama Marathon with the lists i’ve given you.

My BFF, Jessica Salim shared with me directory to stream online:

Look for Newasiantv on your browser. You can streaming your drama fast here. Or you can try for substitles in Bahasa Indonesia.

Enjoy ❤️

Chasing a Man

Good morning dear friends!

It’s been a while since my last post about relationship.

So i got this questions a lot on my Ask.Fm account (if you haven’t followed, please do so. Search for: Angeliasamodro) . YES, A LOTTT!

Most of them think that It is unfair if we, ladies, can’t do anything to chase or approach first the man we like. Don’t you agree?

I have experienced this too. I have crush with this boy but can’t do much. Yes i can approach him with friendly manner and friendly talk. Friend to friend. And make it not obvious and not too excited while we have conversation.

Thanked God that the feeling was not one sided only. So i can sit back and relax.

At other times, i also tried hard to make myself noticeable to one guy. Through the ups and downs and still he didn’t have the feeling for me.

From those experiences, I personally think that it is not right for a woman to chase a man. The furthest a woman can go is by “friend” approaching style only.

You can’t be the one who always text him all days long, excited to ask about his activities and everything else, while he might just send you a steady and short replies.

I am old-fashioned 😆 sorry.

But in my experience, man will be least interested if the woman is aggressive.

Because….. Even the most shy man alive knows that it is his actions to take, to show the woman he loves all the affection, attention, and confession. Not the other way round.

So what happen if the man keeps quiet this far?

Well he might give you a hint that:

1. He’s not interested

2. It’s not the right timing to confess his feeling yet

3. You’re just his “friend with benefit”

Now, how do we know whether he loves us but still waiting the perfect time or he just not interested?

Observe ❤️

Man can sugarcoat all his words. Woman can lulled into his sugarcoated words.

But our conscience won’t lie. It transmits the signal to warn us whether he’s a good one, or just a bad guy playing around. It’s our choice to ignore or be full guard.

If he really interested and just waiting for the perfect time to make his confession, he will: 

Consistence with his act: Keep texting, calling and care about you no matter what

Be a man of his words: Rather than just telling you sweet words, he will show the actual acts.

Prioritize you: Even in his crazy tight schedule, he will find that 5 secs to update you that he’s doing fine and get back to you later and wish you a great day.

It will be so obvious to see and distinguish.

Even for the most shy man… He will do that.

So princess, wear your crown and chin up. No need to chase the prince. He will come to your door, bow down and ask you to take a ride with him.

That’s about chasing. No need to chase okay.

However i will be super okay and agree if you want to take that first act to say “Hi” first or text him first.

Friend to friend, remember.

Nothing wrong with that.

Or if he keep texts you and you like him, you don’t need to play cool by ignoring him.

Just show him your true feeling too. As long as it’s not exaggerated or over. 

Because if you play it too cool, then he might get the idea wrongly and walk away from you.

Being open will not make him thinks that you’re cheap.

He will think that you’re cheap if you show the attitude of being cheap woman. Not by replying his chat and be nice to him 😊

Let me put this to an end by saying that i know that in this life we have, Cinderella story does not exist.  Fairytale is just a tale. Too good to be true, i know.

But i also know that any greatest true love story never start with the girl chasing the man.

It is always and forever the man, chase the woman.

Or enchanted by her kind/friendly acts then he pursue her.

And in many cases where the woman chase the man first, most of the story doesn’t end well because the man just take the advantage or play around.

It’s all my opinion, you might agree to disagree.

It’s your life. I know what happen to the majority couldn’t be used as the scale. So you can continue doing what you believe to be right.

Just remember, let no man look down on you and you must love and  respect yourself first ❤️

Have a good day ❤️

Dining Experience at Transmart Lenmarc


Finally setelah berkali-kali dateng buat tulis review dan ngga pernah kebagian meja, akhirnya kali ini bisa duduk cantik dan makan di dalam Transmart Carrefour Lenmarc.

Postingan kali ini mungkin bakal singkat yah soalnya aku bakal bahas dining experience nya aja yah soalnya lainnya udah aku bahas detail di postingan sebelum ini.

Menu yang aku pilih

Jadi di Ground Floor, di deket daerah fish, poultry dan sayuran, ada daerah tempat kita bisa beli dan duduk makan.

Makanan yang disajikan cukup bervariasi, dari Indonesian Food seperti nasi campur dan nasi pilih-pilih (pilih sendiri mau lauk apa dan sayur apa), Dim Sum, Sushi, dan Bakaran.

Dari semua ini yang selalu rame adalah Bakaran.

Harganya cukup murah dan bersahabat. Kayak ayam bakarnya cuman IDR 15.000 , lalu kita bisa pilih sendiri mau bumbu apa.

Aku recommend banget sama ayamnya. Enak lalu dagingnya juga ngga keras. Bumbunya perfect banget. Lalu kalo saosnya aku pilih sambal biasa 🙂

Selain itu kita bisa pilih sosis dan lain sebagainya. Start dari Delapan Ribuan aja. Ekonomis.

Jadi bisa buat makan berat, bisa sekedar buat ngemil ngemil santai.

Nah untuk Dim Sum sendiri harganya IDR 18.000

Hakau nya seru, ada rasa ayam – udang – sama salmon. Harganya sama semua 😊

Jangan lupa cobain jagung manis cumi-cumi, ini unik rasanya hehe belom nemuin di tempat dimsum lainnya.

Kalo soal rasa, sejujurnya rasanya standard yah untuk dimsumnya. Tapi yang pasti bukan berasa ini frozen dan ngga fresh. Masih acceptable banget di lidah 😊

Bakpao isi coklatnya bikin nagih, kecil mungil, hangat, leleh coklatnya. Mantab! Apalagi kita makannya dengan kondisi di luar hujan dingin. Pas jadinya.

Buat yang pingin makan berat dengan nasi-nasi, ada harga paket special juga yang mesti kalian check. Karena promonya bisa berubah-ubah.

Cukup menggugah selera ya dari semua makanan yang di-display? 😊

Kalo buat makan di sini, aku sarankan milih jamnya yang tepat yah. Karena kalo engga, kita bakal berebut meja dan kursi.

Kalo mau nungguin bakal antri lama. Soalnya seperti biasa, ketika makan, jadi ajang untuk bersosialisasi sambil melepas lelah kan, jadi orang makannya ngga bisa cepet.

Kalo mau yang cepet paling beli bakaran atau sushi buat dibawa pergi langsung 🙂

Oh ya.. Pojok Bakarane ini juga rameee ahahaha jadi ada kemungkinan bakal antri lama juga.

Saran adalah, pergi saat weekdays, malam hari 😆 Ini juga masih antri tapi ngga lama kok.

Hadirnya dining area di Transmart Lenmarc menambah pilihan bersantap bersama keluarga saat jalan-jalan. 

Saat lelah berbelanja juga jadi terhibur bisa ngemil santai dulu.

Mungkin kalo bisa diperbanyak meja dan kursinya bakal lebih nyaman lagi dan menampung lebih banyak customer untuk dine-in.

Pengalaman makan saya cukup menyenangkan. Kalian juga harus merasakan sendiri yah 🙂 Transmart Lenmarc beneran jadi destinasi berbelanja seru buat aku dan keluarga.

Tadi sehabis makan kita juga sempetin belanja bulanan lagi.

Belanjaan kali ini banyakkk banget, struknya sampe panjang banget juga.

Seperti biasa kita beli minyak, roti, keperluan mandi, keperluan Darren, camilan, susu. Aku juga beli handuk dan bantal buat bersantai di sofa rumah.

Harganya ekonomis, ada promo dari bantal yang IDR 99.000 jadi 49.900 aja 😍 Kalo buat bersantai boleh lah ya, cukup empuk tapi bukan yang murah lalu bikin pegel kok.

Darren juga tadi betah duduk di trolley hahaha bisa anteng jadi sempet ambil fotonya. 

Hari ini belanja sama makannya bener-bener puas.

Dannnnn… Sebelum aku mengakhiri blog post tentang Transmart Lenmarc, aku mau berbagi “gossip”.

Kalo di postingan sebelumnya aku bilang Transmart tidak membangun Trans Studio di Lenmarc, ini aku lihat ada space loh buat area permainan. Yaiyyy 🙏🏻👍🏻🤣

Mungkin bukan wahana besar seperti Trans Studio, tapi kita bisa expect area bermain lainnya yang cukup luas.

Ngga sabar banget jadinya biar cepet kelar. Begitu kelar, aku yakin pasti bakal semakin rame dan seru belanja di sini yah. Soalnya one stop shopping experiencenya bakal bener-bener terwujud .

Dan bakal jadi satu-satunya di daerah Surabaya Barat ❤

Let’s wait and see dan berharap cepat selesai area bermainnya. In the mean time, keep calm dan jangan lupa cobain sendiri serunya shopping di Transmart Carrefour Lenmarc.

Break Up Part 2 (Bahasa)

Hello semua ❤ Aku yakin blog post yang ini udah dinanti-nanti ya.

Setelah sibuk postingin Reviewnya Transmart, lalu parenting dan My Birthday..

Sekarang balik ke topik anak galau yang masuk di Ask.Fm aku 😊

Kalo dulu aku pernah bahas Break Up: Blessing in Disguise, sekarang waktunya bahas lanjutannya.

Lanjutannya apa yah? Move On kah?

Wahh tips move on udah ada di Break Up pertama yah. Kalian bisa scroll ke category: Girl’s Talk dan temuin di sana.

Sekedar refresh dari aku kalo sejujurnya ngga ada namanya tips tricks move on. Move on itu dari dalam diri kita sendiri soalnya.

Kemauan kita buat menerima kenyataan kalo saat ini kisahnya sudah berakhir, kemauan kita buat cari kesibukan dan menghalau lamunan soal masa lalu.

Jadi tiap orang bisa cepet dan bisa lama yah. Yang penting terus berusaha aja. Jangan terus-terusan di nurture rasa sakit dan kenangan masa lalunya.

Sama satu lagi kalo buat aku adalah ingetin aja kalo si mantan udah bahagia. Masa iya kita mau sedih-sedih terusan? Dia aja ngga mikirin kita, mikirin yang lain, masa kita mau mikirin dia terus hehe.. Semoga dengan ini jadi cepet move on nya yah.

Nowww… Bahas lanjutannya. Yaitu.

Kalo abis putus barangnya perlu dikembaliin ngga sih?


Ini pertanyaan simple, menggelitik tapi reaksinya bisa banyak loh.

Akan ada golongan yang bilang “ya udah lah itu kan berkat lo. Simpen aja. Ngapain dibalikin. Lagian childish amat ah”

Ada yang karena pride dan bilang “harus dikembaliin yah. Jangan dikira kita mau barangnya doang. ” lalu type ini pun ada yang:

• Semua barang dikembaliin: mulai dari cuman baju, boneka, sampe barang mahal

• Ada yang barang mahalnya dikembaliin , barang kecilnya di keep 

• Ada juga yang barang kecil ngga pentingnya dibalikin, tapi barang mahal berharganya di keep.

Setuju? 😊 Lalu kamu tipe yang A atau B? Hehehe lalu kalo tipe B, kamu tergolong point ke 1/2/3? 😁

Lalu gimana menurut aku sendiri?

Sejujurnya aku sendiri merasa balik lagi ke alasan putusnya yah. Kalo ngga ada hubungannya sama sekali sama masalah materi, alangkah baiknya kalo ngga perlu dibalikin.

Kalopun kamu ngga mau pake karena itu memory, yah pack aja, jual di carousell/lazada/manapun. Atau dikasih buat charity, atau sumbangin ke mana aja.

Kalo dibalikin juga soalnya menurut kamu bakal dia apain? Kasih ke pacar baru juga impossible kan.

Sodara? Sodaranya juga tau kalo itu barang buat pacarnya dulu 😆

Ini menurut aku yah 🙂 Tapi kalo kamu merasa perlu dibalikin tetep walo putusnya ngga ada hubungannya sama materi ya ngga masalah. 

Asalkan jangan yang bagus disimpen yang jelek dibalikin yahhh.. ini bakal bikin si mantan merasa “emang yah mantan aku aneh banget. Glad we’re broke up”😂

Kalo ada hubungannya sama materi gimana?

Kalo aku bakal balikin semua semuanya. Biar ngga diundat (diungkit/dibahas) sama si mantan.

Kan kesel haha dan itu harga diri si buat aku. Soalnya kalo pacaran aku bakal mastiin aku ngga matre, ngga menuntut yang engga-engga. Jadi kalo masih aja dimasalahin matrenya ato dianggap cuman mau harta dia sih ya ogahhh.. kembalikan.. semuanya.. ambil tuh ambil ambil ambil 😆

Lalu kalo masih berhubungan sama break up, si mantan dulu janji tetep temenan tapi nyatanya engga..

Pengen kontak sama mantan..

Perlu ucapin selamat ultah/taon baru/hari raya lainnya..

Ini semua udah ada di Part 1 yah. Tapi buat refresh dan memudahkan aja aku bakal share ulang dengan singkat yah.

Sejujurnya terserah kalian mau tali silaturahminya seperti apa. Cuman setau aku cuman sedikit aja yang bisa bertemen baik sama mantan.

Kalo emang niat tulus ucapin tanpa ada maksud apa2, send pesen singkat aja. Selayaknya temen.

Bales ngga bales hak dia. Kamu jangan merasa sedih galau lagi.

Kalo pengen kontak buat ada temen curhat dan lainnya, aku saranin buat cari temen aja. Jangan mantan.

Ntar kalo dia uda ada pasangan, km ada pasangan juga kan ngga enak. Jadi mending dari sekarang dibiasakan.

Kalo soal janji…..

Dulukan semua ucapan indah 🙂 kalo aku bilang sejujurnya mungkin kamu yang belum get over him/her.

Karena kalo kamu uda over semua nih…. kamu akan cuek aja. Ngga akan permasalahin tindakan dia 😊

Ya kayak tadi aku bilang, silahkan kalo kamu mau beramah tamah dan coba kontak duluan, cuman jangan ngambek aja kalo respondnya beda.

Bahkan ada quotes yang bilang kalo mantan ngga akan bisa bertemen lagi. Kalo bisa, itu either mereka ngga pernah fall in love satu sama lain atau ya mereka masih ngga over satu sama lain.

Sayangnya aku masih lupa siapa yang bilang itu quotesnya 😁🙏🏻

Dan terakir…. Gimana kalo ketemu mantan? Be cool aja hehehehe. Jangan salting nanti dia GR loh.

Tunjukin hiduo kamu bahagia, terserah dia mau bilang apa, jelekin apa, atau mikir apa. Pokoknya tanpa dia kamu jauh lebih baik.

Dan ini harus jadi kenyataan yah. Jangan terpuruk malahan jadi lebih baik.

Pacar baru kita pasti selalu lebih baik kok dari yang sebelumnya. Karena kita juga uda belajar dari pengalaman dan maunya sama yang lebih baik kan. Jadi yang lama jangan ditangisi kelamaan. Tar yang baru ngga bisa segera join hahaha 😊

Semoga di siang hari cerah ini ngga ada lagi yang galau berkepanjangan soal mantan yah. Soal barang-barang kenangan juga.

Have a great dayyyy ❤ Jangan berlama lama bersedih. Kamu kehilangan banyak waktu bahagia soalnya dan nantinya kamu akan menyesali terlalu banyaknya hal baik yang kamu lewatkan karena meratapi masa lalu 🙂

Shopping with Baby at Transmart Lenmarc

Wohoooo it’s time to share with you another detailed experience shopping at Transmart Carrefour Lenmarc. 

Sejujurnya aku perginya udah sama yang kemaren yah waktu bahas Personal Shopping Experience di Transmart Lenmarc. Cuman ini aku dedikasikan postnya bener-bener buat bahas yang seputar Moms and Kids section.

Kita foto nya ngga terlalu banyak soalnya bawa baby itu repot loh apalagi aku tanpa nanny. Urus sendiri. Aku cuman ngajakin oma sama suami aku dan si baby buat belanja. Jadi harap dimaklumi bila ada dokumentasi foto yang sama dan ada yang dari hari Opening Transmart Lenmarc ya .

Ocee back to topic.

Pada saat awal aku diundang Mba Ica, aku semangattt banget loh ketika tau kalo Transmart itu konsep baru dan ada area bermain anak. Aku uda ngebayangin bakal asik banget misal aku fokus belanja lalu si baby sama daddynya di area main aja to keep his mood happy all the time kan.

Nah ini yang aku sayangkan… Ternyata Trans Studio Mini nya adanya di Rungkut, bukan Lenmarc. Huhu ngiri banget yang ada di sana 😞😭 Bisa menikmati shopping and entertainment to the fullest!

Tapi aku ngga berlama-lama kok sedihnya. Haha

Aku demen banget sama trolley nya Transmart. Gede, lalu bukan dari besi-besi. Jadi si baby kalo duduk di sana bakal nyaman.

Trolley nya besar dan nyaman

Lalu karena bukan dari besi juga, aku tinggal bersihin pake wet tissue sebelum didudukin. Maklum yah, Darren kulitnya hyper sensitive. Jadi buat dia aku emang sedikit extra jagainnya. Buat aku trolley plastik lebih hygiene juga yah secara yang besi kalo udah lama pasti karatan.

Si baby enjoy aja didudukin di sana ikut maminya muter-muter milih belanjaan. Tapi aku emang ngga fotoin ya abisnya susah. Si Darren kalo liat HP sama Camera maunya diambil. Lalu kalo keretanya didorong sambil foto adanya hasilnya blur soalnya dia gerak sana sini.

Jadi aku punyanya foto yang ini. Ketika trolley gedenya dibawa oma dan Darren uda bosen, aku balikin dia ke stroller sambil aku bawa smaller basket buat lanjut belanja.

Di Transmart Carrefour ini barang u ntuk ibu dan anak cukup lengkap yah. Mulai dari Diapers, susu, sampai buah premium juga ada.

Untuk harga sekali lagi bersaing. Aku bilang bersaing bukan cari aman yah.

Stocknya banyak pake banget, variannya juga

Aku bilang bersaing soalnya aku sama suami kalo belanja buat Darren ngga pernah catet nominal detailnya like Diapers itu abis xx rupiah, susu abis xx rupiah. No. Kita catetnya overall amountnya. (I know ini pembukuan yang buruk, mohon tidak dicontoh hahaha)

Jadi ketika angka terakhirnya muncul, itu yang aku jadiin patokan. Kemarin aku lebih murah lumayan banyak. Soalnya lagi banyak harga promo yah 😁 Kalo harga normalnya tetep lebih murah tapi uda ngga sampe banyak gimana.

Lalu kalo udah di sini, sekalian mau beliin mainan Baby sama baju juga lengkap.

Dan aku amazednya sama boneka keluaran Nickelodeon ini. Cuman Rp 60.000,-

Aku sama Ce Mindy sampe “wooow” banget dan liatin ini itu ini itu lama banget di section mainan dari waktu hari Opening.

Nah kali ini sama Darren, aku dudukin dia di deket boneka. Sambil dia asik tunjuk sana sini. Di deket lokasi Play-Doh ini juga ada mainan yang uda dibuka buat sample yah. Anak boleh pegang kok moms, asal dijagain biar ngga dirusak ya 😊

Lalu kalo bosen, di deket cashier bawah ada mainan token mobil dan karakter yang bisa goyang-goyang. Cukup bikin baby terhibur juga.

Aku belanja barang baby di sini cuman diapers, susu sama buah-buahan dan sayur buat makanan dia.

Kalo buah udah aku bahas dipostingan lalu yah. Bagus, segerrr, lalu harganya murah.

Sayurnya juga seger dan bagus. Kalo harga sayur ya lebih pricey daripada pasar. Tapi karena aku ngga pernah bisa ke pasar pagi hari, aku ngga pernah dapet sayur yang seger jadinya buat aku belanja sayur di sini ya nyaman dan enak. Harga reasonable, kualitas oke, ngga perlu pagi pagi pula hehehe.

Lalu balik lagi ke topic mainan anak. Di Instagram aku sampe ada yang comment “cece ada roller coasternya ngga?”

Lalu waktu aku ke Open House sekolah anak, ada yang nanyain juga, “kalo aku bawa anak aku ke Transmart Lenmarc dia bisa main banyak yah? Trans mini kan?”

Huhu i do really hope mereka buka sih. Tapi dari yang aku tanya dan konfirmasikan, Trans Mini cuman ada di Rungkut. Aku juga khusus tanya supaya kalo sampe akan dibangun aku juga bisa info di blog.

Sayang banget yah emang.

Tapi kalau diijinkan kasih masukan dan ada space gedean, aku berharap Transmart gedein space cashier, belanjaan (jadi produk daily bisa makin banyak) sama space makanan hahaha. Aku uda ke 2x nya yah dateng dan ngga dapet tempat buat makan.

Trans mininya mungkin bisa diganti sama sample mainan yang dibuka lebih banyak aja. Anak juga uda puas kok. Atau mini playground aja (sliding, swing, mandi bola) Ngga perlu sampe roller coaster haha.

Overall tetep suka kok sama apa yang udah ada sekarang.

Jadi aku merasa ini destinasi belanja baru yang oke buat aku dan keluarga yah. 

Karena buat aku tolak ukurnya adalah aku ngga perlu ribet.

So gonna come back to review the last series: Dining Experience.

Stay tuned yah! Doakan aku segera bisa dapet tempat duduk juga yah jadi makannya puas lol